Open for the Season :: Boston’s Best Springtime Spots

I think it’s safe to say that spring has sprung here in New England; colorful flowers are popping up, the birds are singing every morning, and there have been a few days when jackets haven’t been required. (I have even pulled my flip flops out of hibernation!) But I also know not to hold my breath, as the weather is nothing if not fickle in this area. Nevertheless, for me, one of the true heralds that spring has arrived is the opening of some favorite seasonal spots in the Boston area. I’m happy to share that several of these are now open, and some are opening in the coming weeks for all to enjoy!

Sullivan’s :: Castle Island, South Boston

This summer mainstay has quite a long season, and it seems to open earlier every year — this year it opened at the end of February and will be open until just after Halloween! Nothing says the beautiful weather is here more than a delicious Sully’s hot dog or lobster roll to be enjoyed right by the water. My family loves to make a day of playing and exploring around Fort Independence, watching the boats and planes nearby, visiting the playground, and then picnicking amongst the seagulls on the many tables in front of Sullivan’s.

The Greenway Carousel :: Rose Kennedy Greenway, Boston (across from the New England Aquarium)

Colorful sea creatures offer rides in the heart of the city as the wind plays with your hair. This merry-go-round is a fun spot to visit as you explore the city. The carousel just opened up for the season and will be open through the fall.  

SoWa Open Market :: South End, Boston

Featuring nearly 200 artisans, a variety of food trucks, musicians, and Boston’s first “Beer Barn” (a taproom and beer hall with lawn games and live music), the SoWa Open Market is a fun weekend stop, and it’s open every Sunday from early May through October.  

Lawn on D :: D Street, South Boston

This outdoor space on the waterfront offers lawn games, food trucks, music, children’s festivals (from time to time), and even “swing time” — something for everyone in the family. Opening in early May, the Lawn on D is a premier outdoor space, full of liveliness and cheer.  

Swan Boats :: Boston Public Garden

From April through Labor Day, the Swan Boats offer a scenic 15-minute exploration of the Public Garden’s lagoon. This classic Boston tradition, which began in 1877, offers one of the best opportunities to explore nature at its finest in one of the most picturesque areas of the city.

What are some of your favorite seasonal spots in Boston to visit at the start of spring?

3 Surprising Emotions From My IVF Journey

Like many couples, my husband and I figured that when we were ready to have children, we would get pregnant easily. We had no reason to assume otherwise. Unfortunately, we were wrong. Upon receiving the news that we would need to go through in vitro fertilization (IVF) in order to get pregnant, our emotions ran the gamut. There were emotions I expected, there were some I was warned about, and there were many more I experienced during our journey. And there were a few additional emotions I did not expect, which took me by surprise.

The lack-of-surprise factor

My mother longed for grandbabies for a long time. I couldn’t wait to someday surprise her with the news that we were pregnant. When I learned we would be going through IVF, I knew I would need the support of close family and friends and therefore confided in a few of them, including her. Though having their support was worth it, it made it not so surprising when I did end up getting pregnant. In the grand scheme of things, it was low on the list of things to worry about, but the emotion was still there.

The guilt

After our first cycle, we were fortunate to end up with several embryos. On our first try with a single embryo, I got pregnant, had a healthy pregnancy, and gave birth to our first baby nine months later. When we were ready for a second, we transferred another one of our embryos on a natural cycle. That embryo split, and we had twins. Most people think of IVF as a long, drawn-out, emotional process, and that was my expectation going in. While our journey was still emotional, we were fortunate to have things go our way at every step. I was surprised at how guilty I felt for having such an “easy” time while so many others have not had things go so smoothly. But I am often reminded that no matter how smoothly things go, IVF is never easy.

The strength

It takes a lot of strength to go through the IVF process, which should not have been surprising to me, but it was. The experience helped me to be really in tune with my body, it taught me patience, and it made me ask lots of questions. It led me to be very well-prepared to keep expectations in check. These tools, unbeknownst at the time, helped me through my pregnancies and births and became valuable tools as I became a parent. 

Being three kids deep into parenthood, I do not reflect too often on my journey with IVF. It is one of those experiences where only those who have gone through it truly know the complexity of the emotions that come along with it, both before, during, and after the process. While there were ups, downs, and a slew of emotions in between, I know it was an experience that has made me a stronger person. For that, and for my three babies, I am grateful.

Moms Get Lice, Too

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One day last summer, I lifted up my daughter’s ball cap to adjust the fit when I spotted something crawling on top of her head. A very little something. A few very little somethings.

LICE.

It wasn’t long before I was peeling out of the driveway for a lice removal center (yes, that’s a thing), kids in the back with ball caps jammed over their infested heads.

Upon arrival, we were ushered inside a small room with a dentist-type chair facing a TV (hello, Clockwork Orange) and made to watch a 10-minute informational video about lice. Unfortunately, in covering the different kinds of lice, the narrator mentioned how a rare body lice could, at one time in history, kill you. My son, 4 at the time, turned to me with wide eyes. “I could die from this?”

Needless to say, the 9-year-old went first. Attacking my daughter’s hair with gusto, the Lice Lady proudly showed me the numerous nits (aka lice eggs) that she combed out and wiped onto her stack of Kleenex. I nodded dumbly. Yup, lice.

And then the 4-year-old went, having been thoroughly reassured that he was not, in fact, dying from the bugs on his head. Once they were both done and handed ice cream cups for their trouble, the Lice Lady turned to me, wielding her many-toothed comb like a dentist drill. “Your turn, Mom.”

Listen. I’m just like you. I’m educated. And health-conscious. And generally pretty clean.

But yes, I had lice, too. 

I had heard about lice since I was a kid, I knew it was a thing, but I never thought it would happen to my family — until there was a house party on my head. And now I can tell you: Lice shame is real. Especially for kids, who care way too much about what their friends think. (Note that I’m posting this anonymously, not for my sake, but for my third-grade daughter’s.)

Turns out it had gone on long enough to reach the whole family. Even my husband had a few, which, oddly, earned him some cred from the Lice Ladies. They said the dads only get it if they’re short (their heads are closer to their kids’ heads) or affectionate and cuddly with their kids. My husband is pretty tall, so I guess in some perverse way, getting lice means he’s a good dad?

Anyway, we all suffered through the embarrassment, not to mention the scalp-scraping removal, and we learned how to get rid of lice going forward. Actually, I’ve now learned more about lice than I EVER wanted to know. To boil it down:

1. If your family gets lice, tell the people who need to know.

The kids’ school nurse and teacher. Close friends and family, especially those who have had extended contact with your kids. Potentially embarrassing, yes, but you’ll appreciate it when someone reveals their infestation so you can give your kids a good check. Remember, no shame.

2. Lice can’t hurt you.

They can itch like heck, if left alone long enough, but they do not carry diseases or otherwise cause harm. 

3. Head lice do not fly or jump; they only crawl.

So the most common way to get lice, by far, is head-to-head contact with another person.

4. Lice can’t live for more than a day or so off the human head.

Which means you don’t need to burn all your kids’ stuffed animals, throw out the sofa, or even shave the cat. Keep cool, lady.

5. If you discover an infestation, it’s wise to start with a professional removal.

This will not only chase off every last nit, it’ll also teach you what you’re looking for. (I mean, these guys are tiny!) In the future, you can do checks yourself with nothing more than a nit comb, a box of Kleenex, and a boatload of conditioner. 

I’m happy to report that my family is lice-free now. Of course, that still means frequent checks. And a good dose of humility. Because now we know that we’re not too good for lice after all.

5 Best Boutique Gyms in Boston

Boston — and Massachusetts in general — is often voted as one of the fittest and most health-conscious cities in the US. With so many gyms, boot camps, and outdoor opportunities to hike, bike, swim, and boat, Boston certainly is a mecca of exercise.

Lately, there has been a bit of a groundswell in large, multi-use gyms hitting the scene and finding a lot of success. Gyms like Equinox, Boston Sports Club, and now Lifetime have it all, including childcare (always a plus!), hot tubs, outdoor pools, and a bountiful amount of healthy snacks. But, all this often comes at a hefty price point.

Today I want to show some love for some of the lesser-known, niche, and boutique gym opportunities that abound in the city and surrounding suburbs. While these gyms may not have all the bells and whistles, they represent the best in certain types of movement specialties or have other qualities that make them hidden gems and ultra-special — and each have their own price points to accommodate most.

1. Gymnasia (Newton and Waltham)

I have been going to Gymnasia for three years, and I’ve never been happier. With a focus on functional movement patterns, body weight exercises, kettlebells, and FUN, this hidden gem helped me to completely change my relationship with exercise. In addition to being challenging, this gym has helped me understand where my own strength resides and how to tap into those movement patterns. I am doing everything from inversions and bear crawls to somersaults and arm balances — things I never thought I could do. The community is fabulous and is appropriate for all ages, sizes, and abilities. There is an abundance of one-on-one support and coaching even within the group classes. I highly recommend it!

2. H.Y.P. Studio (Needham and Wellesley)

Yoga is definitely trendy right now. We see everything from Hatha, Bikram, Vinyasa, and even naked and goat yoga these days! H.Y.P. is my favorite amid a slew of trendy yoga studios, however. They specialize in warm and hot Vinyasa flow. The instructors are grounded, skilled, and adept at reading the energy in the room and adjusting accordingly. I am challenged with the poses and flow but never feel pressured to perform or push myself beyond how my body is feeling that day, and it’s one of the reasons I love this place. (My favorite instructors are Jenna, Laura, and Masaki.)

3. GymIt (Watertown and Boston)

This family-owned gym has two locations — Watertown and Boston. It takes the no-frills approach to exercise and comes at a really affordable price — $24.99 a month. The Watertown location has an outstanding boxing facility and teaches George Foreman-style boxing classes. The boxing workout contains both traditional boxing training along with high-intensity interval training. Both locations offer locker rooms, strength training, and cardio areas.

4. Exhale (Battery Wharf and Back Bay)

Is it a spa? Is it a gym? Actually, it’s both! Exhale is a self-defined “urban oasis” that offers the best of yoga, cardio, and barre classes. But it also allows tired and stressed moms a way to relax, with a full-service spa, including services like “accu-healing” (acupuncture for stress and pain relief) and acu-organ detox, which combines acupuncture and abdominal massage for cleansing and detoxing.

5. Btone Fitness (Back Bay, Chestnut Hill, Wellesley, South Boston, North End, and Lexington)

This innovative boutique gym offers a unique methodology. Btone combines pilates, yoga, barre, and TRX with its own proprietary equipment and modality, focusing on an effective, yet sustainable approach to fitness — and a one-size-does-NOT-fit-all mentality. As such, they offer customized classes and support to create a workout that works for ALL bodies at any level, age, or ability.

There are so many other great fitness offerings in our area — it was very hard to boil it down to five! Some honorable mentions include:

Stil Studio (Legacy Place)
Inner Strength Studio (Watertown and Sudbury)
Burn (Back Bay and South End)
Recycle Studio (South End)

What did I forget? What boutique gyms have you visited that are making an impact on you? Let us know! And let’s get moving this spring in a way that works for any and all of us.

Earth Day Activities for Boston Families and Children

I’m a firm believer in the statement that every day is Earth day! However, the official annual Earth Day holiday falls on Sunday, April 22, this year. Here is a roundup of Boston-area activities for families and children to help you celebrate!

Thursday, April 19

Wall-E Screening (Cambridge) :: 11 a.m.–2 p.m.

Friday, April 20

Earth Day Celebration (EcoTarium, Worcester) :: 10 a.m.–4 p.m.

Saturday, April 21

Annual Spring Cleanup and Barbeque (Somerville) :: 9 a.m. 
ESI Earth Day Celebration (Cambridge) :: 9 a.m.–12 p.m.
Party for the Planet (Franklin Park Zoo, Boston) :: 10 a.m.–3 p.m.
Film for Families: Straws (Wellfleet) :: 1 p.m.

Sunday, April 22

Volunteer Day at Land’s Sake Farm (Weston) :: 10 a.m.–12 p.m.
Earth Day Celebration (Tower Hill Botanical Garden, Boylston) :: 10 a.m.–2 p.m.
Greater Hingham Cleanup Day (Hingham) :: 10 a.m.–12 p.m.
Agricultural Festival (Boston) :: 10 a.m.–4 p.m.
Taza Earth Day Chocolate Dirt Pudding (Boston) :: 12 p.m. or 1:30 p.m.
The Great Arlington Clean-Up Day (Arlington) :: 1:30–3:30 p.m.

Saturday, April 28

Annual Charles River Cleanup (various locations) :: 9 a.m.–12 p.m.
Musketaquid Earth Day (The Umbrella, Concord) :: 10:30 a.m.–2 p.m.

Know of any activities happening in your neighborhood? Let us know, and we’ll add them to our list!

What I Hope They Remember

In my dozen years of parenting, I have found one clichéd statement to ring true.

The days are long, but the years are short.

I looked at my oldest son the other day and realized exactly how true this statement is. The chub is long gone from his cheeks. His once-tiny hands are now nearly as big as mine. The little foot that used to stomp around in my boots can no longer squeeze into those same shoes. Those long days slid into short years, and my baby grew up.

And I don’t remember most of it.

Of course I remember first steps and birthdays. But those other days? The ones that seemed to go on forever as I rocked a fussy infant or calmed a tantruming toddler? Those days have faded into my past, meshing into one another. No longer “Tuesday” but “when he was 6-and-a-half….ish. Or maybe 7…”

I know my kids aren’t going to remember everything about their childhood. I often wonder, though, what are they going to remember about me? What will they tell their own kids about their mom?

Here are a few things I hope they remember:

Our little adventures

We are a large family with a small income. No tropical vacations dazzle in our future. I try to make up for this by putting a huge effort into taking my kids on little adventures. I often spend my spare time scouring Groupon for deals on fun activities, or reserving museum passes from the many local libraries I am a member of. We spend our school vacations and summers finding new playgrounds and hiking trails. Our “big vacation” each year is a long weekend away in New Hampshire with friends, where we use passes to parks that I have purchased months before using a Black Friday deal. Our adventures don’t usually take us far from home, but they are a ton of fun!

How much I cherish my friends

That friend we go to NH with? We met in third grade. I hope that while we are on our vacation together, after all of our children snuggle into their beds at night, they hear us adults laughing around a board game and enjoying a friendship we have cultivated for decades. I hope my kids realize this long-lasting friendship is one of many friendships their dad and I have kept for years.

And while they think about friends, I hope they remember the family-style relationship we have with our neighbors. Doors always open, no knocking required, a box of freeze pops on hand for any kid in the neighborhood all summer long.

How I always found the humor in life

When my kids are adults and look back to their childhood, I hope they remember my silly dances, conga lines through the house, and kick-butt renditions of Toto’s “Africa.” (But I hope when they remember that last part, they remember me with a kick-butt singing voice — not the one I actually have!)

How much I celebrated them

I am always a little bit concerned that my kids will feel lost in the shuffle because they have so many siblings. For this reason, we celebrate. We celebrate big, and we celebrate loud. We have big birthday parties for each of our kids, surrounded by friends and family. I routinely post about their accomplishments on my social media accounts. And that old adage that you have a ton of pictures of the first kid, but less of the others? That one certainly doesn’t apply here. My kids refer to me as the “mama-razzi.”  

How involved I tried to be

With five kids, I know that time constraints will cause me not to be at every activity they participate in. But this doesn’t stop me from trying my hardest! I want them to remember how very hard I tried to simply be there. Yes, it means that nearly every one of my days is spent participating in a PTO event, sitting at a baseball field, or listening to tentative guitar strums. But I genuinely love seeing my kids do things they enjoy, and I want them to know I will make sure to be there for each of them, every chance I get. These years are short, and I intend to fully enjoy them.

When my kids are grown, I hope they remember these long days and short years with fondness. And if they remember nothing else, I hope they can look back on their childhoods and say:

I remember how much my mom loved me. And I remember how hard she tried.

 

But I AM an Athlete :: Fighting the “Cheerleader” Stereotype

Growing up in Texas, I knew from a young age that I wanted to be a cheerleader. After all, as the nation knows, Texas’ “Friday night lights” culture is strong. And being part of that culture is in every good Texan’s blood.

As a teen, I bled my school’s colors, cheering on my beloved Rattlers each week during the fall.

But it wasn’t just football and basketball games that filled my time. My time (and the rest of my squad’s time) was filled with cheer practice, strength training, stunt practice, or tumbling at the gym — six out of seven days each week. It wasn’t because we wanted to look super awesome on the sidelines of the game; it was because we, like many other cheerleaders, were gearing up for competition.

Yes, competition.

Like, the thing “athletes” do. And based on the definition of an athlete, cheerleaders are about as athletic as they come.

Merriam Webster’s definition of an athlete is, “a person who is trained or skilled in exercises, sports, or games requiring physical strength, agility, or stamina.” But yet, the fact that cheerleaders can tumble on the floor at the level of an Olympiad, hoist a girl into the air with grace and ease, jump as high and with as much flexibility as a rhythmic gymnast, and dance with as sweet of moves as a renowned hip-hop group continues to be lost upon so many.

Nevermind that all of the above check the proverbial boxes of “athlete” requirements.

I know this not just because I lived it (I’m over that), but because my 7-year-old daughter now cheers competitively. And my 11-year-old son constantly tells her that “cheerleading is NOT a sport.” (By the way, the definition of “sport” is “physical activity (as running or an athletic game) engaged in for pleasure or exercise.” Pretty sure cheerleading checks those boxes, too.)

Sure, it grinds my gears to hear him say this. But he only says it because that’s the resounding sentiment from not only his friends but from many in our community, as well as the media.

You see, even though cheerleading has evolved from bobby socks and yelling, “rah-rah-sis-boom-bah,” somehow the only ones who have noticed this evolution are those who have witnessed the intense training and performance of today’s cheerleaders.

Today’s cheerleader is not the stereotypical blonde-haired, not-so-bright, girl-in-a-short-skirt who stands around at a football game jumping around without much purpose other than to say, “go team!”

Cheerleading isn’t an activity that permits only the girl with the most friends who twirls her hair around her finger as she walks through the school with her quarterback boyfriend (did that actually ever happen?) to be a part of it.

And no longer is cheerleading an activity that has a sole purpose of cheering for the boys on the sidelines.

Cheerleading is a sport. One that requires extreme physical strength and coordination.

Being a cheerleader doesn’t just mean you cheer for the boys on the sidelines; it means you are an athlete. I was an athlete. My daughter is an athlete. Cheerleaders are athletes.

Searching For Great Child Care? Ask These 9 Key Questions

We have partnered with KinderCare to bring relevant and important information to BMB readers through this sponsored post.

Join KinderCare Learning Centers at a participating center in the Boston area for an open house on April 28. Take a tour, meet their team, explore classroom activities (great for helping little minds grow!), and find out what makes KinderCare the leader in early childhood education. KinderCare is offering free registration when you attend an open house and begin the enrollment process. Click here to RSVP to an open house in your area.

Choosing the perfect child care center is a big deal, and it can be stressful. You want to pick a place where your child will be happy, loved, nurtured, and safe. Ask these nine key questions at every center you visit to figure out the best fit for your family.

1. Do the teachers love working with children?

During the first few years of life, caring interactions with adults are essential to building a child’s brain. When you visit a center, take note of how the teachers interact with children: Are they kind and responsive? Do they ask big questions and encourage learning? Look for teachers who smile and babble with babies, share laughs with kids, and physically get down to kid level when speaking with children (this shows kids that their point of view matters).

2. What will my child’s learning look like — at every stage and age?

More than 70 percent of brain development happens by the age of 3, so an educational approach in these early years in a must. Great learning centers offer activities tailored to the learning goals of each age group — and have a staff that understands your child’s learning goals and how to reach them. Ask for concrete examples of activities and how they help your child learn and grow, like is there tummy time to help build your baby’s confidence?

3. Will my baby be safe — even when she sleeps?

Any child care center you visit should be very knowledgeable about safe sleep standards of care and rigorous about practicing them (especially in the infant room). When you’re on a tour, ask teachers and center directors about their safe sleep practices: Are babies always put to sleep on their backs? Are cribs free of stuffed animals and other hazards? And most importantly — is a mindful teacher keeping watch over the children as they sleep?

4. Will my baby feel happy here?

When kids are in a warm and inviting atmosphere, they feel happy and eager to learn — and when you visit a center, you should feel it too. Ask yourself: Does this center feel welcoming? Are the children happy and thriving? Are the rooms clean, organized, and well-maintained? Is there a fun, safe place to play outside?

5. Are there lots of great books within easy reach of little hands?

It seems like a small question, but when you’re only two feet tall, it’s a big one — and the answer can give you important info about the center. Why? When children are given the freedom to choose their own books (or toys or activities), they develop curiosity, independence, and confidence all on their own.

6. Is my child’s teacher terrific?

When you visit a classroom, ask the teacher how she makes reading and math fun. From silly alphabet sing-alongs to counting ladybug spots, a trained teacher will have a million great ideas. Notice if she asks kids open-ended questions like, “How did that happen?” or “What do you see?” These kinds of questions foster critical and creative thinking. You might even ask how she fosters social and emotional development — these crucial skills make it easier for children to succeed in school and are best taught during early years.

7. If there’s an emergency, how are children kept safe?

Emergencies — like floods, fires, or tornadoes — can happen at any time, and your child care center should always be ready to keep children safe during a crisis. When you visit, talk to the center director about emergency preparedness.

8. Will my child be celebrated for who she is?

On a tour, watch to see if the teachers and center director make a genuine effort to connect with your child. Did they ask her name? Did they include her in classroom activities and ask about her interests? When teachers celebrate the budding individuals in their classrooms, they help children uncover new passions and interests, encourage independence, and teach the whole class to respect and care for others.

9. Did I feel listened to?

Did the center staff ask you questions about your family? Good teachers and center directors will actively try to learn about your family’s needs and will understand and respect them — whether you’re concerned about your preschooler’s reading ability, your baby’s nap schedule, or special dietary restrictions. Good communication between families and center staff can help solve all sorts of daily child care challenges (from potty-training hurdles to a misplaced beloved teddy bear), so make sure that open dialogue starts with your first visit.


About KinderCare® Learning Centers

For nearly 50 years, KinderCare Learning Centers have been a place where every child can learn, explore, and discover in a safe and nurturing environment in more than 1,350 community-based centers. KinderCare leads the nation in accredited centers and is passionate about providing children a sense of discovery while building confidence that they’ll carry with them for life. To learn more, visit KinderCare online at www.KinderCare.com, on Facebook, or on Instagram. For resources, information, and activity ideas for parents and teachers of young children please visit www.KinderCare.com/content-hub.

Moving to Greater Boston :: North Andover

Maybe you’ve been in Boston for years, but you’re now having kids and looking to relocate. Maybe you’re planning a move to the Boston area from another city in the U.S. or abroad, and you’re trying to make sense of your options. Whatever the case, Boston Moms is here to help with a handy guide to some popular towns in the area! We’ll tell you about the vibe, income levels, schools, and fun insider info to help you figure out the best place for you.

(Also check out our guides to East Arlington, MiltonNorth AttleboroSalemSomerville, and the South End!)

How we got here

After growing up in Medford and Somerville, we longed for privacy and wanted to look into our backyard and see wildlife. We fled for the Merrimack Valley, purchasing our North Andover home in 2013. We had spent a lot of time running in North Andover with friends from the Borderline Running Club and the Merrimack Valley Striders and felt North Andover fit who we are. And the area has a lot of offer!

Vibe :: Suburbia

In size, North Andover spans 27 square miles — but it has a small-town feel. There are historic areas, including the Machine Shop Village and the Old Burial Ground on Academy Road, but also brand new homes. A popular spot in North Andover is the town common; the town’s original meeting place, The North Parish Church, overlooks the old center. The common attracts residents to roam the perimeter of the large area of green year round and hosts events such as the Sheep Shearing Festival and weekly summer concerts for kids and adults. It is a very family-centric town and was recently voted the 33rd safest town in the country.

Live :: Single-family, condo, multi-family — it’s all here

You can find whatever type of home you’re looking for in North Andover. According to Trulia, 84% of North Andover residents are homeowners. There is a variety of neighborhoods, including more densely populated areas with multi-family homes, various developments and condominiums, and streets like ours where the houses are spaced farther apart. The town is predominantly single-family homes, and the median sale price for a home is $477,000.  

Learn

North Andover has a great school system. There is an early education center, five elementary schools, a middle school, and a high school. Our high school has a 96% graduation rate. There is also a youth center. Although my girls are not of school age yet, I have received feedback from other North Andover moms of how amazing the schools are, inclusive of teachers and staff. North Andover is also home to Merrimack College.

Play

There is a lot to do in North Andover. Steven’s Pond attracts many residents in the summer. Weir Hill, Harold Parker State Forest, and Ward Reservation are all beautiful places to go hiking. Steven Coolidge Place, the summer home of one of the descendants of the founding families of North Andover, the Stevens family, has year-round events. Smolak Farms is another cherished establishment in North Andover for its variety of fruit picking (apples, blueberries, strawberries, and more), petting zoo, and an endless list of seasonal and holiday activities. Smaller in scale but great for that exact reason is Boston Hill Farm — it has similar features to Smolak, but it’s a little quieter.

Go

North Andover is the suburbs, and you need a car. One of my favorite things about this town is how accessible it is to multiple major highways, including 495, 93, and 95. Given that fact, we can be in Boston, New Hampshire, or Maine within 30 minutes or less (excluding high commuting times). Most people commute by car to Boston, but there is also commuter rail access in neighboring Andover.

I hope you’ve found this guide helpful!

Stay tuned for more town guides to clue you in about Greater Boston’s many terrific family-oriented places to live.

Also, see our previous guides to East Arlington, MiltonNorth AttleboroSalem, Somerville, and the South End.

Don’t Bring Your Baby to Disney? Think Again

We are so grateful that we were able to attend the Disney Social Media Moms Celebration and are thankful to Disney and all of the sponsors for this experience.

My son Jesse isn’t 2 yet, but he’s made the trip to Disney twice, most recently for the Disney Social Media Moms Celebration. If the chance came up, I’d bring him again in a heartbeat. Some people think I’m nuts for bringing my little guy to Disney when it’s not just around the corner and have suggested I should leave him home with family so we can enjoy the time with our older kids. No thanks. Disney magic is for everyone, even those who won’t remember it. Why, you ask?

He’s free

Under the age of 3, kiddos are free. They get free admission to the parks, they don’t need FastPass+ to get on any rides, they stay in your hotel room free of charge, and they do not need a meal plan. My little guy has gotten to enjoy all the perks of the parks, eaten more than his fair share from the buffets, met all the characters his siblings met, and got to take it all in. 

On the cruise portion of our trip, Jesse was able to enjoy all the amenities his older siblings enjoyed, plus he had the added option of the “it’s a small world” nursery (for an additional fee). He swam, he met characters, he saw shows, he ate, and he had a blast.

The characters

We used our FastPass+ to meet some characters, and my little guy was able to see them all. At the parks and on the Disney Cruise Line, the opportunities to meet characters were plentiful. Jesses loved to run up and hug them, pet the softer ones, wave, blow kisses, and generally treat them like his friends. I know he didn’t recognize them, but seeing his face light up when he saw The Mouse couldn’t be beat. I’ll admit that we were very spoiled on this trip with so many character meet and greets, but the joy on his face never got old.

Rides and entertainment

Jesse is a bit of an adrenaline junkie. He likes to play rough, he’s a climber, and he likes going fast. There were endless options for little ones to enjoy rides and attractions. It was so easy for him to sit on our laps to enjoy rides — they were stimulating to his little eyes and brought big smiles to his face. Plus, we were able to take advantage of Rider Switch, so both my husband and I got a chance to ride, and Jesse and our other little ones rode twice!

In addition to rides, there were shows and parades throughout the parks all day long! From live action to seeing animals on safari, there was so much for them to see and do! Jesse took it all in, clapped for everything, and genuinely seemed to enjoy it all.

Food

This kid likes to eat. And we are a family that enjoys trying new foods and restaurants. The opportunities to eat and try new things at Disney were plentiful. My children always try new cultural foods at Disney, and Jesse was no exception to this! Most recently, he took a liking to Moroccan food!

Mickey bar ice cream on Disney Dream

Naps on the go

It can be a bit tough to deal with a schedule when you are trying to see and do everything at the parks. We tried to roll with it as much as possible. Some days we took some down time and went back to the room to nap, but most days naps were on the go. Children are so adaptable, and there are definitely times when it’s worth bending the rules a bit. Bedtime was typically later on our vacation, naps were ad hoc, and the exhaustion at night was real. But seeing the happiness was the biggest payoff!

Think bringing a baby to Disney is silly? I beg to differ!

More Than Running at the Boston Marathon

Leader female Boston Marathon

The post is written with warm thoughts and respect to those we lost and those whose lives were changed forever on April 15, 2013.

More than a marathon

I am a runner, passionate about my sport, and my kids know that. But even if you have no interest in running or understanding why someone would pay to run 26.2 miles, taking your kids for a family day at the Boston Marathon on April 16 is worth your time.

Children Spectating Boston Marathon

Filled with sport history

The Boston Marathon is the oldest annual marathon in the world. It carries a wealth of sports history as it approaches its 122nd running. As a mother of two daughters, most prominent in my mind are when Bobbi Gibb became the first woman to run (unregistered) in 1966, followed by Katherine Switzer (registered) the following year.

Life-long goal, achieved

Held on Patriots Day, the marathon draws athletes from around the world. Some of these athletes have won other marathons, but a win at Boston is a life-long dream for many. Our own local running hero, Shalane Flanagan, will try to take home a win in Boston as she did in November in NYC. Why am I telling you this? Because I don’t think there isn’t a kid who couldn’t benefit from seeing men and woman testing their physical and mental limits while pursuing a life-long dream on the streets of our fine cities and towns along the course.

Passion and commitment

The Boston Marathon draws over 30,000 athletes each year. Many athletes have gone through years of preparation. A non-professional runner typically spends 16 weeks training before they get to the starting line to run 26.2 miles. It’s inspiring to watch so many people with such passion and commitment. That drive carries them through the training and the length of the race that day. Sure, my kids might not appreciate all the preparation that goes into this, but I love sharing the electricity that exists on the course along with the camaraderie and good sportsmanship you witness from the race participants.

Running for a cause

A large number of athletes who participate in the Boston Marathon do so through charity organizations. Last year participants raised an astounding $34.2 million dollars through the 200 charities involved with the marathon. There are individuals who embark on training for Boston never having run a mile — all to support the charity they’re passionate about. They are a great example to my children: Testing their physical limits to benefit hundreds of worthy charities.

Spend the day

Grab your lunch, lawn chairs, cowbells, and your loudest cheers, and pick a spot along the 26.2-mile course (our favorite spot is the Newton Hills). And enjoy the 122nd running of the Boston Marathon!

Busy Moms’ Grocery Apps for Meal-Planning Success

In preparing our tax return, my husband and I gave our finances a very thorough audit. We had some big expenses at the end of 2017 — we purchased our forever home and had our third daughter within the same month. We also have some big ticket items we’re interested in purchasing in the near future.

As we looked through our monthly expenses, I was extremely surprised that our family of four goes through about $1,000 a month on groceries. Perhaps for some of you, that number is reasonable (or even low!), but for our family right now it seems exorbitantly high.  

My fellow BMB contributor Jacquelyn recently shared her strategies for meal planning. Unfortunately, bulk purchasing won’t work for me right now. So I decided to investigate meal planning and grocery apps. I found a few really great apps for my purposes, and I anticipate I will find some real savings with long-term use! Please share your experience with your favorite apps!

Instacart

The gist: Instacart partners with local stores to deliver groceries to your doorstep. If you upgrade to their “Instacart Express” for a $149 yearly fee, you can order as often as you want ($35 minimum for free delivery). My thought was that having a strict list and online ordering would tamp down impulse purchasing.
Pros: Delivery within two hours! Scratching off a weekly errand was nice. Having dinner ingredients delivered within a couple of hours was nice too. There were also more stores to choose from than just the local store known for its delivery service. I could have items from CVS or Petco delivered too!
Cons: The participating stores aren’t my usual destinations, so I had a harder time deciding what was a good price for items. Also, I couldn’t rely on a few of my “go-to” store-brand items.

Yummly

The gist: Yummly celebrates itself as the app that knows how you eat. You build your own cookbook, and Yummly will suggest other recipes based on your likes. Sort of like a Pinterest for meals. Once you have at least ten recipes saved, you can create a shopping list on your smartphone with ingredients in the recipe you want to make.
Pros: Yummly has over two million recipes to search and save. Once there are recipes in your recipe box, the ingredients can be pulled up in the smartphone app and added to a shopping list. Once I got the hang of the app, I found it pretty easy to choose recipes and create a shopping list from it. This will definitely help me meal plan! And bonus — the app connects to Instacart!
Cons: I had to refer to the FAQ page to learn how to save recipes.

Grocery IQ

The gist: Grocery IQ is a true grocery planning app with barcode-scanning capabilities.
Pros: Lists are easy to create and organize. I was also able to “clip” coupons directly in the app, saving me even more money!
Cons: There isn’t a meal-planning component to the app, and I really wanted that feature.

Paprika

The gist: This all-you-can-eat app allows you to organize recipes, meal plan, and create shopping lists. You are also able to save recipes anywhere from the internet. One nifty feature is that you can sync your lists, recipes, and meal plans across all of your devices. Another is that it organizes ingredients automatically for you by aisles.
Pros: Making my grocery list was very intuitive and easy to do. It was also very easy to browse and save new recipes!
Cons: When I was browsing recipes, the app had trouble loading the content. Also, the app has a one-time cost of $4.99. 

The Verdict:

The Paprika app definitely had everything I was looking to accomplish. I could search for meals, add ingredients to my grocery list, and schedule the selected meal for a specific date. While the app wasn’t free, its comprehensive features and simplicity to use will definitely save me money in the long run. I’ll check back in a few months to keep you posted on how much money I’m averaging in savings!

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