Holiday Trains in Boston :: 2018

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November 16, 2018

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Through December 29

Edaville Express (Carver | Wednesdays and Thursdays)

Join Mrs. Claus and Santa’s elves at the Edaville boarding station as they embark on a 45-minute interactive train ride adventure to find Santa, all while enjoying chocolate milk, HOOD eggnog, and cookies. Fueled by Christmas cheer, the train ride includes singalongs to your favorite Christmas songs, dancing elves who give out shiny bells, and lots of bright lights that twinkle in the night! Each guest receives a special present.

November 17–January 1

The Polar Express 4-D Experience at Jordan’s Furniture (Avon)

Even though you don’t technically go anywhere on this train ride, the Polar Express experience is not to be missed! You will be right there in the action as a moving seat takes you aboard the train. Melting snow will tickle your skin, and the vivid smells of rich hot chocolate will liven your ride on the Polar Express.

November 24–December 22

The Train to Christmas Town (Buzzards Bay)

The music begins as passengers depart the station, while elves dance in the aisles, leading singalongs to other favorite Christmas carols. There are cookies, hot chocolate, and a special gift from Santa. When arriving at Christmas Town, gather together to share the views from the window of the magical lighted town. Wave to Santa and his elves before they climb aboard to greet each boy and girl. All guests can enjoy other activities and games on board as they interact with the cast and crew. Kids are able to play a game of I-Spy as they look for animal friends hidden throughout the car like the gentle snowy owls and Bubble and Squeek the chatty mice that frequent the train.

December 1

ICS’s Polar Express Ride (Newburyport | 11 a.m.–8 p.m.)

The annual ICS North Pole Express will leave the Newburyport train station for the North Pole with a 70-minute roundtrip adventure, including cocoa and treats, a visit from Mr. C and his elves, and a silver bell presented to each child during a reading of “’Twas The Night Before Christmas” by local storytellers. Come in your pajamas or as you are for a truly magical experience for children and parents alike. Remember to bring your camera!

December 8–9

Ride With Santa on the Amtrack Downeaster (Haverhill)

Ride with Santa and start a new family tradition this holiday season! Mr. Claus will travel along with the Amtrak Downeaster Trains 690/691 on Saturday, December 8, and Trains 692/693 on Sunday, December 9, to extend special greetings to passengers! These Downeaster trains will be decked out in holiday style to welcome their special guest and create magical holiday moments for riders. Tickets are limited and available on a first-come, first-served basis. Visits with Santa are available at no extra cost to Downeaster passengers.

December 9

Scituate North Pole Express (Scituate)

The spirit of the holiday will descend upon the quaint village of Scituate as children embark on a magical train ride to the North Pole. This 60-90 minute train ride departing from the Greenbush Commuter Rail Station (247 Old Driftway) to the North Pole will delight children and adults alike. Children will be entertained with the reading of this classic story of “The Polar Express,” have milk and cookies, sing Christmas carols, and be visited by Santa’s Elves, Frosty, Rudolph, and the big man in red, Santa, and Mrs. Claus. Children are encouraged to wear their pajamas to get into the spirit of the event.

December 9

The Jolly Jingle Express (Woburn)

Get in the holiday spirit as you board the Jolly Jingle Express, a roundtrip train ride starting and finishing at the Anderson RTC in Woburn. The train travels into Boston, where it will stop briefly before it returns to Woburn.

Classic Boston Holiday Events :: 2018

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Deanna Greenstein

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November 16, 2018

November 17–January 1

Enchanted Village at Jordan’s Furniture (Avon)

The tradition lives on! Once called the Enchanted Village of St. Nicholas, the holiday display was created in 1958 for Jordan Marsh Downtown Crossing. It has passed through City Hall Plaza (late 90s) and the Hynes Convention Center (2006-2009) and now is at Jordan’s Furniture in Avon, where it has been restored and is on display. The surviving collection includes 59 mechanical figurines and 18 vignettes.

November 19

Annual Lighting of the Trellis at Christopher Columbus Park (Boston | 5 p.m.)

Join Mayor Walsh and the Friends of Christopher Columbus Park for the annual trellis lighting ceremony, complete with Christmas carols, hot chocolate, and more.

November 26

Charles Hotel Tree Lighting (Cambridge | 4–6 p.m.)

Join for the lighting of the Harvard Square holiday trees! Shake Shack will be providing complimentary beverages. At 4 p.m., children can help decorate the trees with ornaments and bow ties from Vineyard Vines. Santa Claus’ jazz band will perform at 5 p.m., and the tree lighting will take place at 5:30 p.m., followed by a visit from Santa! The performances will continue until 6:30 p.m., allowing everyone a chance to visit with Santa.

November 26

Copley Square Tree Lighting (Boston | 5–6 p.m.)

The free event will feature appearances by Santa Claus and Rudolph, along with musical performances by the Boston Children’s Chorus, the Boston Pops Brass Quintet, and Berklee College of Music students Britani Washington and Sam Robbins. Festivities will continue in and around Copley Square on November 27. The Boston Public Library and The Catered Affair will host a Storytime and Candy Cane Tea at the library from 3:30 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. This event is free, but reservations are required by calling (617) 859-2272.

November 27

Faneuil Hall Tree Lighting Spectacular (Boston | 7:30 p.m.)

The official Blink! Tree Lighting takes place on November 27 during the live broadcast on WBZ-TV/CBS Boston at 7:30 p.m. It will feature appearances by Santa Claus, The City of Boston Community Choir, holiday singers, and the official flipping of the switch to illuminate thousands of twinkling lights synchronized to music.

November 28–January 1

Blink! (Boston | 4:30 p.m.)

Blink!, the world-famous light and sound show, will return to deck the halls this holiday season at Faneuil Hall Marketplace. Blink! features the signature holiday tree at Marketplace Center joined by other trees and lights throughout the property. This year’s Blink! show features six holiday favorites. Performances run from 4:30–10 pm daily through January 1, 2019.

November 29

First Light Brookline (Brookline | 5–8 p.m.)

First Light started 18 years ago in Brookline’s Washington Square, when several businesses came together to spread holiday cheer by hanging snowflakes in their storefront windows. These glowing flakes illuminated the square, signaling the start of the holiday season. Over the years, First Light has grown into the town’s annual winter festival, showcasing the talents of local artists, musicians, and performers at businesses and other venues throughout Brookline.

November 29

Frog Pond Skating Spectacular and Tree Lighting (Boston | 5–6 p.m.)

Join the Skating Club of Boston at the Boston Common Frog Pond for a free world-class figure skating ice show featuring national and international figure skaters, synchronized skating, and Theatre On Ice teams. Following the show, join Mayor Marty Walsh for the Boston Common tree lighting ceremony.

November 29–December 30

Boston Ballet’s “The Nutcracker” (Boston)

Let Mikko Nissinen’s “The Nutcracker” capture your imagination and transport you to a magical world of brave toy soldiers and dancing candy canes. Follow Clara as she embarks on her journey filled with colorful characters, breathtaking costumes, and majestic scenery. From the captivating dance of the sugar plum fairy to the iconic snow scene, this enchanting holiday classic — set to the beloved music of Tchaikovsky — continues to enthrall audiences of all ages.

December 1–23

Teddy Bear Tea (Boston)

This favorite New England event series includes a festive afternoon tea at the iconic Bristol Restaurant and Bar, accompanied by a reading of a favorite holiday children’s book by a Boston celebrity. Four Seasons Hotel Boston’s furry resident Truffles the Bear makes daily appearances to the delight of families and young guests. Teddy Bear Tea is a special community benefit initiative of Four Seasons Hotel Boston, teaching young guests the spirit of charity. Guests are invited to bring a teddy bear to donate, with Four Seasons gifting all collected bears to local Boston organizations that benefit children in need. Each year, Four Seasons Hotel Boston collects over 5,000 bears for Boston area children, with over 100,000 bears collected to date.

December 6–31

BSO Holiday Pops (Boston)

Join the Boston Pops for special kids’ matinee performances, which include post-concert photos with Santa and special treats. This year’s special performances include Home Alone in concert, with the Wellesley High School Chorus! The not-to-be-missed New Year’s Eve concert with the Boston Pops Swing Orchestra will be hosted this year by Seth MacFarlane!

December 31

First Night Boston (Boston)

For 40 years, Boston’s First Night has been a cherished tradition and a signature event for the city, with artistic performances, the wonders of the season, and the beginning of a new year. Entertainment and specialty attractions will be focused in Copley Square and the Boston Common. Many of the beloved traditions of First Nights past will be retained, including ice sculptures and light displays. In addition, arts and musical performances will take place in numerous inside and outside venues around the heart of the event.

Festive and Fun Holiday Events in Boston :: 2018

By

Deanna Greenstein

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November 16, 2018

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November 17–January 1

Enchanted Village at Jordan’s Furniture (Avon)

The tradition lives on! Once called the Enchanted Village of St. Nicholas, the holiday display was created in 1958 for Jordan Marsh Downtown Crossing. It has passed through City Hall Plaza (late 90s) and the Hynes Convention Center (2006-2009) and now is at Jordan’s Furniture in Avon, where it has been restored and is on display. The surviving collection includes 59 mechanical figurines and 18 vignettes.

November 17–December 8

Methuen Festival of Trees (Methuen)

The Festival of Trees has been a marvel of the Merrimack Valley for over two decades. Featuring over 240 trees, wreaths, and displays that you could win, this family celebration has something for everyone.

November 18–January 1

Edaville Festival of Lights (Carver)

Edaville’s Christmas Festival of Lights is one of the most-loved festivals of its kind, with generations of loyal fans. Passengers relax in warm, dry coaches while riding through a spectacular holiday setting featuring an explosion of lights. Kids of all ages will enjoy an array of vintage amusement rides, Thomas Land rides, and a visit with Santa. Enjoy a meal or seasonal treats while roaming Edaville’s sprawling and beautifully decorated grounds featuring thousands of Christmas displays.

November 20

Thanksgiving Potluck Feast (Cambridge | 5:30–7:30 p.m.)

One of the biggest community events of the year, the annual Thanksgiving potluck feast is where old friends and new neighbors meet and enjoy a traditional Thanksgiving dinner with all the fixings. The Agassiz Baldwin Community supplies the turkey (cooked by volunteers), cranberry sauce, and drinks, while guests bring salads, sides, and desserts inspired by their own family traditions. Hosted in the Maria L. Baldwin School cafeteria, this neighborhood tradition has continued for nearly 40 years!

November 23–25, December 7–9

Commonwealth Ballet’s “The Nutcracker” (Weston)

Share the merriment of the holiday season as the accomplished dancers of Commonwealth Ballet and guest artists frolic, battle, and dance through Clara’s holiday dream. Join with the family party set before a magical tree and enjoy the laughter, magic, and wonder of this holiday classic accompanied by the beloved Tchaikovsky score. This fully staged production is sure to captivate and entertain all ages.

November 24

Lowell City of Lights (Lowell | 2–10 p.m.)

Ring in the holidays in downtown Lowell with this year’s City of Lights parade and holiday celebration! Take the afternoon to stroll the city streets and enjoy live performances, holiday shopping, photos with Santa, and the crowd favorite — a hot chocolate competition! The daytime fun leads to the nighttime extravaganza — the City of Lights parade and city hall lighting — which marks the city’s official start to the holiday season!

November 26

Charles Hotel Tree Lighting (Cambridge | 4–6 p.m.)

Join for the lighting of the Harvard Square holiday trees! Shake Shack will be providing complimentary beverages. At 4 p.m., children can help decorate the trees with ornaments and bow ties from Vineyard Vines. Santa Claus’ jazz band will perform at 5 p.m., and the tree lighting will take place at 5:30 p.m., followed by a visit from Santa! The performances will continue until 6:30 p.m., allowing everyone a chance to visit with Santa.

November 26

Copley Square Tree Lighting (Boston | 5–6 p.m.)

The free event will feature appearances by Santa Claus and Rudolph, along with musical performances by the Boston Children’s Chorus, the Boston Pops Brass Quintet, and Berklee College of Music students Britani Washington and Sam Robbins. Festivities will continue in and around Copley Square on November 27. The Boston Public Library and The Catered Affair will host a Storytime and Candy Cane Tea at the library from 3:30 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. This event is free, but reservations are required by calling (617) 859-2272.

November 27

Faneuil Hall Tree Lighting Spectacular (Boston | 7:30 p.m.)

The official Blink! Tree Lighting takes place on November 27 during the live broadcast on WBZ-TV/CBS Boston at 7:30 p.m. It will feature appearances by Santa Claus, The City of Boston Community Choir, holiday singers, and the official flipping of the switch to illuminate thousands of twinkling lights synchronized to music.

November 28–January 1

Blink! (Boston | 4:30 p.m.)

Blink!, the world-famous light and sound show, will return to deck the halls this holiday season at Faneuil Hall Marketplace. Blink! features the signature holiday tree at Marketplace Center joined by other trees and lights throughout the property. This year’s Blink! show features six holiday favorites. Performances run from 4:30–10 pm daily through January 1, 2019.

November 30–December 23

Jose Mateo Ballet Theater’s “The Nutcracker” (Boston and Dorchester)

Jose Mateo Ballet Theatre honors the classical tradition by continuing what may well be New England’s longest-running interpretation of “The Nutcracker” ballet. Following its 1988 premiere in Fall River, various tours throughout the state with regular performances in Springfield, Worcester, and Lowell, and a 10-year run at Boston’s Emerson Majestic Theatre, the production quickly distinguished itself as one of the first versions anywhere to focus more on the dancing than on the usual caricatured mime, pomp, and special effects of its predecessors. Even the cast of over 100 children who play the mice, soldiers, cherubs, polichinelles, and Clara have substantial dancing roles.

December 1

ICS’s Polar Express Ride (Newburyport | 11 a.m.–8 p.m.)

The annual ICS North Pole Express will leave the Newburyport train station for the North Pole with a 70-minute roundtrip adventure, including cocoa and treats, a visit from Mr. C and his elves, and a silver bell presented to each child during a reading of “’Twas The Night Before Christmas” by local storytellers. Come in your pajamas or as you are for a truly magical experience for children and parents alike. Remember to bring your camera!

December 1–23

Teddy Bear Tea (Boston)

This favorite New England event series includes a festive afternoon tea at the iconic Bristol Restaurant and Bar, accompanied by a reading of a favorite holiday children’s book by a Boston celebrity. Four Seasons Hotel Boston’s furry resident Truffles the Bear makes daily appearances to the delight of families and young guests. Teddy Bear Tea is a special community benefit initiative of Four Seasons Hotel Boston, teaching young guests the spirit of charity. Guests are invited to bring a teddy bear to donate, with Four Seasons gifting all collected bears to local Boston organizations that benefit children in need. Each year, Four Seasons Hotel Boston collects over 5,000 bears for Boston area children, with over 100,000 bears collected to date.

December 2

Wellesley Holiday Stroll (Wellesley | 1–6 p.m.)

There’s nothing like it throughout all of the greater Boston area — 60 Wellesley merchants host events and savings, scavenger hunt winners get gift certificates worth about $850, and the Art Walk by the Wellesley Women Artisans has become just as much of a tradition as is this great event.

December 6–31

BSO Holiday Pops (Boston)

Join the Boston Pops for special kids’ matinee performances, which include post-concert photos with Santa and special treats. This year’s special performances include Home Alone in concert, with the Wellesley High School Chorus! The not-to-be-missed New Year’s Eve concert with the Boston Pops Swing Orchestra will be hosted this year by Seth MacFarlane!

December 8–9

Ride With Santa on the Amtrack Downeaster (Haverhill)

Ride with Santa and start a new family tradition this holiday season! Mr. Claus will travel along with the Amtrak Downeaster Trains 690/691 on Saturday, December 8, and Trains 692/693 on Sunday, December 9, to extend special greetings to passengers! These Downeaster trains will be decked out in holiday style to welcome their special guest and create magical holiday moments for riders. Tickets are limited and available on a first-come, first-served basis. Visits with Santa are available at no extra cost to Downeaster passengers.

December 8

Santa Speedo Run (Boston)

The SSRun is a fun, unique, and crowd-pleasing fundraising event like no other you have experienced. It began in Boston in 2000 with five guys just looking to spread some holiday spirit by running through Back Bay in only Santa hats and Speedos. Since then, it has grown to include 700 men and women each year and has become an annual holiday tradition that has hosted thousands of participants who have helped to raise over $1.6 million for local children in need.

December 9

Needham Holiday House Tour (Needham | 10:30 a.m.–4:30 p.m.)

Tour-goers have been inspired and delighted each holiday season for over 20 years touring as many as six beautifully decorated Needham homes. Also, visit “The Marketplace — Gifts That Give Back.” At the Marketplace, vendors will be selling unique gifts sure to inspire your holiday shopping. A percentage of the proceeds from the Marketplace will go to support A Gift of Warmth, a home heating assistance program for the Needham area.

December 15

Kendall Square Holiday on Ice (Cambridge | 11 a.m.–9 p.m.)

The 11th annual Holiday on Ice celebration at Community Ice Skating includes free admission all day, free food, and a free show produced by Frozen Frog Productions. The show will feature holiday numbers as well as local and international competitors and world-class professional skaters. The festivities begin at 11 a.m. with free admission, and the ice skating show begins promptly at 2 p.m. Join for a fun show that is sure to get you in the holiday spirit! Skate rentals will be available at regular rates.

December 31

First Night Boston (Boston)

For 40 years, Boston’s First Night has been a cherished tradition and a signature event for the city, with artistic performances, the wonders of the season, and the beginning of a new year. Entertainment and specialty attractions will be focused in Copley Square and the Boston Common. Many of the beloved traditions of First Nights past will be retained, including ice sculptures and light displays. In addition, arts and musical performances will take place in numerous inside and outside venues around the heart of the event.

Holiday Productions in Boston :: 2018

By

Deanna Greenstein

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November 16, 2018

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November 23–25, December 7–9

Commonwealth Ballet’s “The Nutcracker” (Weston)

Share the merriment of the holiday season as the accomplished dancers of Commonwealth Ballet and guest artists frolic, battle, and dance through Clara’s holiday dream. Join with the family party set before a magical tree and enjoy the laughter, magic, and wonder of this holiday classic accompanied by the beloved Tchaikovsky score. This fully staged production is sure to captivate and entertain all ages.

November 28–December 9

How The Grinch Stole Christmas (Boston)

Dr. Seuss’ beloved holiday tale, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, has become a perennial holiday classic! Max the Dog is narrator as the Grinch’s fiendish plan to steal Christmas from the holiday-loving Whos unfolds. However, the Grinch soon discovers there’s more to Christmas than he bargained for in this heart-warming holiday classic.

November 29

First Light Brookline (Brookline | 5–8 p.m.)

First Light started 18 years ago in Brookline’s Washington Square, when several businesses came together to spread holiday cheer by hanging snowflakes in their storefront windows. These glowing flakes illuminated the square, signaling the start of the holiday season. Over the years, First Light has grown into the town’s annual winter festival, showcasing the talents of local artists, musicians, and performers at businesses and other venues throughout Brookline.

November 30–December 23

Jose Mateo Ballet Theater’s “The Nutcracker” (Boston and Dorchester)

Jose Mateo Ballet Theatre honors the classical tradition by continuing what may well be New England’s longest-running interpretation of “The Nutcracker” ballet. Following its 1988 premiere in Fall River, various tours throughout the state with regular performances in Springfield, Worcester, and Lowell, and a 10-year run at Boston’s Emerson Majestic Theatre, the production quickly distinguished itself as one of the first versions anywhere to focus more on the dancing than on the usual caricatured mime, pomp, and special effects of its predecessors. Even the cast of over 100 children who play the mice, soldiers, cherubs, polichinelles, and Clara have substantial dancing roles.

December 5–6

Pentatonix Christmas Tour (Boston)

Join the chart-topping group as they tour with their new holiday album “Christmas Is Here!” A family favorite for sure!

December 6–31

BSO Holiday Pops (Boston)

Join the Boston Pops for special kids’ matinee performances, which include post-concert photos with Santa and special treats. This year’s special performances include Home Alone in concert, with the Wellesley High School Chorus! The not-to-be-missed New Year’s Eve concert with the Boston Pops Swing Orchestra will be hosted this year by Seth MacFarlane!

December 7–23

Langston Hughes’ Black Nativity (Boston)

Langston Hughes’ heartwarming gospel play returns for the 2018 holiday season at the Paramount Theater, celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ through the uplifting genre of gospel music. Produced and performed by the National Center of Afro-American Artists, it celebrates the black community and wider Boston during this holy season. Follow the star to Bethlehem in this modern staging of Hughes’ original musical, and rejoice in the good news that this show brings for a community often on the outskirts, rather like a certain baby 2,000 years ago.

December 7–23

North Shore Music Theatre A Christmas Carol (Boston)

Returning for his 27th straight performance, celebrated actor David Coffee once again dons the cane and top hat of the infamous Dickensian villain Ebenezer Scrooge for a magical evening of classic storytelling, astonishing special effects and classic old-timey carols including God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen and We Wish You A Merry Christmas.

December 8

Manheim Steamroller Christmas (Boston)

In addition to being a holiday tradition for many families, the Mannheim Steamroller Christmas Tour regularly attracts repeat attendance from multi-generational guests and is one of the longest running tours in the music industry. PBS stations nationwide will be broadcasting “Mannheim Steamroller 30/40 Live” this year. The milestone special was filmed to mark the group’s 30 year anniversary of musical holiday magic and 40 years of groundbreaking Fresh Aire compositions. This year’s tour includes many of the songs heard in the PBS special broadcast.

December 14–29

The Christmas Revels :: A Nordic Celebration of the Winter Solstice (Cambridge)

A holiday tradition for nearly five decades, The Christmas Revels is a joyful theatrical celebration of the winter solstice that travels the world each year showcasing cultural traditions including music, dance, folktales, and rituals. The 48th annual Christmas Revels celebrates the traditions and musical culture of the Nordic nations — Denmark, Finland, Iceland, Norway, and Sweden — countries with some of the strongest traditions of solstice celebration and ritual.

December 15–16

The Hip Hop Nutcracker (Boston)

A holiday mash-up for the entire family, the Hip Hop Nutcracker, a contemporary re-imagination of Tchaikovsky’s timeless music, sets out on a third national tour following the success of two previous sold-out tours. The Hip Hop Nutcracker is an evening-length production performed by a supercharged cast of a dozen all-star dancers, DJ, and violinist. Through the spells cast by the mysterious Drosselmeyer, Maria-Clara and her Nutcracker prince travel back in time to the moment when her parents first meet in a nightclub. Digital scenery transforms E.T.A. Hoffmann’s story of sugarplums into 1980s Brooklyn. This new dance work celebrates love, community, and the magic of New Year’s Eve.

Easy Ways for Moms to De-Stress

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Morgan Sheena

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November 15, 2018

Stress and being a mom go hand in hand. Even when things feel calm (ha!), there’s always that underlying stress — all the things you need to do and the hats you have to wear and the people you need to serve. It feels like it never ends. It’s no wonder that 68% of people feel stress on a weekly basis, and one in four women report feeling stressed multiple times a day, according to a recent survey by Wakefield Research. So what can we do to help with the constant weight of stress that is hanging over us?

It’s imperative that we take care of ourselves and seek a little calm in the storm. Sometimes the simplest things can really help us de-stress and feel just a little bit better as we face the day and all the constant demands of motherhood. A warm bath, a good workout, reading a book, some alone time, or treating myself (or a friend) to some flowers always brings a smile to my face and helps me feel just a bit more relaxed.

The best part about treating yourself or another amazing mom to some gorgeous flowers is that they last, and the whole family gets to enjoy them too. As someone who was, sadly, born without a green thumb, ordering or picking up fresh flowers is an easy way for me to put on a smile on someone else’s face (without me worrying too much about destroying them!). Plus, a recent study conducted at the University of North Florida shows that living with flowers, even just for a few days, helps to reduce our stress. These findings support other research that shows flowers help make people happy, strengthen compassionate feelings, help to foster creativity, and provide an energy boost (which all moms need). So, it’s a no-brainer that fresh flowers make any environment better, since they make you happier, help reduce stress, and generally improve health and well-being.

In addition to all those great stress-relieving benefits, flowers are versatile and easy to come by. It’s simple to swing by your local florist or market to pick up flowers for a gift, for yourself, or even for a quick and easy way to decorate your home. I’ve gotten into the habit of picking up a fresh bouquet whenever I can, even if it’s small and simple. I love to keep flowers right in the kitchen, which is the heart of my home. Everyone stops and sniffs them, they brighten up the room, and they make everyone smile.

Though giving is the best, there’s something really special about receiving flowers! Whether they show up on my doorstep or my husband or a friend hands them to me, they always bring a smile to my face. Flowers let me know someone is thinking about me, and they help me feel loved in this chaotic world of motherhood! The beautiful arrangement below showed up on my doorstep during a particularly stressful day. I don’t remember what had me so worked up that day, but I do remember opening my door and smiling big. They have been right by my workspace for a few days, and the bright colors and beautiful smells give me a little pause and help me refocus. It’s almost like a mini-meditation to help me power through the rest of my day!

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How to Raise Kind Kids

By

Ranessa Doucet

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November 14, 2018

It’s so easy to get wrapped up in parenting comparison. When I see a friend’s child getting a trophy for being the best at something, I get a twinge of jealousy. When I hear that someone else’s child is reading chapter books already, I start to panic. When someone else’s daughter sells more Girl Scout cookies, I begin to wonder how I dropped the ball.

It’s exhausting and draining to get sucked into the tornado of comparison. And I think sometimes we lose sight of the importance of teaching kindness to our kids. My kids are 6 and 7; they have their whole lives to become who they are meant to be. When I stop to think about what I really want for my children, it’s that I want them to be kind and happy.

Research shows that kindness leads to happiness, so they go hand in hand. I want my kids to see kindness as an important quality and to carry that throughout their lives. Being kind is more important than being the best, in my eyes, and small acts of kindness can make a significant impact on others.

So how do we teach kids to be kind? Here are a few small, simple ways to start.

Be an example of kindness yourself

Don’t let your kids hear you making fun of another mom, trash-talking your husband, or being rude to the waitress. Let them see you compliment others, give a hug, offer a helping hand, or simply hold the door for someone. Although it often seems like your kids aren’t listening to what you say, they certainly are watching what you do.

Create something

My kids are visual learners, so finding ways for them to see kindness in action is helpful. We have painted kindness rocks for people to find. The thought of someone finding a beautiful painted rock and smiling helps them see that simple acts can brighten someone’s day. It could also be drawing pictures to give to someone who needs cheering up. The act of creating something and seeing it make others happy can be impactful.

Visit someone

Giving someone your time is an important act of kindness. We are all over-scheduled these days, so time is precious. It could be taking the time to visit a family member with your kids, or volunteering at a soup kitchen or a dog shelter. Showing kids the importance of giving their time to others is priceless.

Share kindness stories

Every night at dinner or bedtime (or even once a week) each family member can share one act of kindness they did that day or one act of kindness they witnessed. Having this ritual will help them be more aware of kindness and create a feeling of proudness around it.

These are just a few examples and a place to start. This list will grow as your children grow. Kindness isn’t always easy or “cool.” It can take courage for kids to be kind when others around them may not be. Many kids don’t want to stand out from the crowd, and sometimes being kind can feel scary because you’re putting yourself out there. Kindness is a muscle that we can all work to build and help our kids build too. Nothing makes me prouder than seeing my child show kindness to others. In a world where being the “best” or the “most liked” is often emphasized, think of the world we could create if kindness were our focus.

5 Awesome Parenting Books to Help with Different Stages of Childhood

By

Rachel South

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November 13, 2018

When I became a mom, I felt all the feels — extreme happiness, complete exhaustion, and anxiety that I had no idea what I was doing! I hadn’t spent much time around babies, so in addition to turning to family and friends, I sought out the experts — via parenting books — for some sage parenting advice. Not one of these books has had all the answers for my parenting conundrums, but I do like reading about different perspectives and ideas on child development. Here are the books that have helped me parent my son through different stages of his life so far.

“The Happiest Baby on the Block” by Harvey Karp, M.D.

I started reading this book a few days after my son was born and found Karp’s five S strategies (swaddle, side or stomach, shush, swing, suck) to work well for him. Basically, we need to recreate a womb-like atmosphere for newborns in order for them to calm down. I was definitely using this advice many times at 3 a.m.!

“Work. Pump. Repeat.: The New Mom’s Survival Guide to Breastfeeding and Going Back to Work” by Jessica Shortall

When I was returning to work after maternity leave I wanted to continue breastfeeding but felt a little overwhelmed with the idea of pumping. This book is a great guide to help navigate all the issues with pumping at work. It also has some hilarious pumping stories from real life moms.

“The Sleepeasy Solution: The Exhausted Parent’s Guide to Getting Your Child to Sleep from Birth to Age 5” by Jennifer Waldburger and Jill Spivack

For me, the hardest part about parenting an infant was lack of sleep. When my son was around 4 months old I decided it was time to start sleep training. He would be starting daycare soon, and I wanted to get him on a more consistent schedule. “The Sleepeasy Solution” laid out all the steps for successful sleep training and had advice for lots of different issues that could arise. Sleep training is not easy, and I know it is not for every family. But it worked for my son, and now he sleeps 11-12 hours through the night and takes consistent naps every day!

“No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame” by Janet Lansbury

I found this book extremely helpful in dealing with my son’s “terrible twos” behaviors. We all know toddlers are going to have tantrums, and this book helped me discover strategies to handle these behaviors in a calm and empathetic way. I feel more confident in my ability to set limits while also connecting emotionally with my child.

“How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk” by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

I read this book before I had my son (I was a primary school teacher for nine years), and it continues to be one of my favorite parenting books. The techniques taught in this book can be applied to all ages of children and even adults. It gives tons of helpful strategies for communicating effectively with your child in order to have a more respectful and enjoyable relationship.

I’m always on the lookout for more great books to read. What are your favorite parenting books?

3 Tips From a Pharmacist’s Wife

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Leah Lynch

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November 9, 2018

As Ned Stark would say, “Winter is coming,” which means cough, cold, and stomach bug season is upon us parents. We all do the best we can to protect our kids from the worst of the germs, but despite all the hand scrubbing and avoiding shared food and drinks, your kids will get sick. As a pharmacist’s wife, I have learned a few useful tips and want to share the knowledge.

Infant Tylenol versus children’s Tylenol

Your baby gets a fever and you need Tylenol (acetaminophen). But beware. Infant Tylenol in the tiny bottle is a complete ripoff. Infant Tylenol has 160 mg per 5 ml of acetaminophen. Children’s Tylenol is the exact same concentration. However, children’s Tylenol costs significantly less. Retailers know parents will shell out the extra cash for anything labeled safe for infants. If you know your child’s appropriate dose by weight, you are safe to give them the children’s Tylenol. For accurate dosing, you should be using an oral syringe, which many pharmacies will give you for free.

As you can see in the picture below, both products are 160 mg per 5 ml of acetaminophen. The children’s Tylenol is a four-ounce bottle, the Infant Tylenol is only two-ounce bottle. The children’s product is double the amount of medicine for less than the price of the infant product.

Liquid or tablet?

My son and daughter will not tolerate any liquid medication that is a solution. Solutions tend to be bitter, and they make my kids gag. For example, when they need an allergy medication like Claritin (loratidne), we let them chew the tiny tablet with a few chocolate chips. But not all medications can be chewed. Always check with your local pharmacist or doctor to see what your options are. Never chew any medication that is extended release or delayed release. The other upside to choosing tablets over liquid, when available, is cost savings. Liquid versions of medications are typically more expensive than their tablet counterparts.

Allergic reactions to antibiotics — they may surprise you

Allergic reactions to antibiotics like amoxicillin may not happen immediately after taking medication. In fact, your child may not have a reaction until a second therapy of the antibiotic. For example, my 1-year-old son had an ear infection and was prescribed amoxicillin for 10 days. He had no reaction, and his ear infection cleared up. A month later he had another ear infection and was prescribed another 10 days of amoxicillin. He vomited and became completely lethargic within an hour. He also broke out with a rash all over his body. He was reacting to the amoxicillin and is now considered to be allergic to any medication in the “cillin” family. My husband and I knew immediately that our baby was reacting to the antibiotic because of my husband’s education and experience as a pharmacist. My son recovered after about 24 hours and was his chipper self. His rash, however, lasted about a week.

Always be honest with your pharmacist about other medications you may be taking, and always try to stick to one pharmacy. Did you know the effectiveness of oral birth control may be decreased while taking certain antibiotics? Inform your pharmacist about medications you take regularly or may be filling by mail order, as there could be drug interactions. You should always feel comfortable talking to your pharmacist about your medications. (However, they do not want to talk to you about your insurance plan.) Pharmacists are knowledgeable and professional, and they truly want to help. Especially when it comes to your kids.

I’ve Become My Mother

By

Rachel Wilson

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November 8, 2018

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My mother was visiting recently, helping with the kids during the period when camp had ended but school had yet to begin. My youngest bumped her head and started to cry. At the exact same time, in the exact same tone, my mom and I both said, “Oh, goodness” to her. This is not the first time I’ve noticed myself doing or saying something just as my mom would. It seems I have turned into my mother! Here are three ways I find myself mimicking my mom.

Our choice of words

“Oh, goodness” is just one example of the things I say that are just like my mom. My daughters are firm about choosing their own clothes, and I tell them exactly what my mom used to tell me. “I don’t care what you wear, as long as you are clean and neat.” Living in New England rather than the West Coast, I need to add “seasonally appropriate.” Nonetheless, I’ve made my mom’s phrase my own. I also find myself telling my kids, “When mom gets cold, you put on a sweater.” Another mom gem from my own childhood.

Our media habits

Growing up, my mom would listen to one of two radio stations in the car — the classic rock channel or NPR. I used to BEG her to change it to the local pop station, often to no avail. I’m sure you can guess that now I’m the one listening to “the oldies” (the ’80s station) or to NPR. And just like I did, my own daughter BEGS me to turn it to Top 40. Similarly, I’ve now taken to watching PBS on television. If my kids were old enough to watch TV at night, I’m sure I would get the same whines of, “This is boring!” that I used to give.

Our clothing choices

When I was a teenager, my mom bought herself a pair of French jeans. They were $100, which was A LOT to spend on jeans at the time. It was a very considered purchase on her part, and she made sure I knew it. Those jeans are back in style today, and were my mom and I the same size, I could wear them and be considered trendy. I can’t, but I notice myself gravitating toward more conservative pieces since I became a mom — higher waistlines, longer hemlines, and flat shoes. And I wonder what else my mom had in her closet back then that I might like to poach today.

The first time I heard myself using one of my mom’s phrases, I cringed a little. But I realize now, why wouldn’t I want to be like my mother? I had a great childhood. And my mom is a person I really like today as an adult. I can only hope I’m as good a mother to my children as she was and is. So the next time I put on a sweater and tell my kids to do the same, I’ll smile.

Because I’m just like my mom.

5 Things I Didn’t Know About Saving for College

By

Teresa Kett

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November 7, 2018

When our first child was on the way, my husband and I started looking into saving for college for our baby. Yes, we started early. I was and still am daunted by the cost of college and how to save. As it turns out, figuring out the process isn’t so bad. Coming up with the money is the more challenging part! We chose a 529 plan, which means the earnings are tax-free as long as it’s used according to the rules set up in the tax code it’s named for. This type of saving was all new to me, and I’m certainly no financial expert. But here are a few things I picked up along the way that may be helpful to other parents who choose to go the 529 route.

It gives family and friends a place to put their money (instead of toward more toys).

As a parent-to-be, I feared becoming overrun with kid stuff. Yes, that happened anyway. But I shudder to think how much more stuff we would have if we hadn’t suggested a college fund donation when family and friends asked what they might gift our kids for birthdays, Christmas, baptism, etc. Think even as early as your baby shower!

You can set up a 529 plan before your child is born.

Yes, it seems strange, but it’s possible. And beneficial — see above. The first roadblock was that our little fetus had no social security number. But you can set it up in one parent’s name, and switch it out once the baby arrives and has a social security number. Or just wait until the baby comes. Either way, the earlier you start, the more time your money has to grow.

You don’t have to invest in the 529 plan for your state.

Many states offer 529 college savings plans. Like many investments, you can choose based on performance, fees, and other benefits. You’re not locked in to a lesser-performing plan just because of where you live. We checked other states out and picked one that made sense for our family.

The money can be shared among kids.

Even though you open a 529 plan for a specific person, you can use it for other kids or even for yourself. This is nice to keep in mind in the event your child chooses a path other than college or earns a scholarship. You can even use it for the degree you never finished or for graduate school for yourself.

Saving money for college is hard.

While pregnant and when our first child was an infant, we made regular deposits to the account. Once our second child came along, it got harder. Everyday bills, daycare, mortgage, retirement, and unexpected expenses all seem to take priority. We send money when we can. But we love how donations to our kids’ college funds have become a regular birthday and Christmas gift from grandparents and great-grandparents!

Dear Blippi :: A Love Letter to My Toddler’s Favorite YouTube Personality

By

Deanna Greenstein

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November 6, 2018

Dear Blippi,

It’s me, Gabe’s mom. You may not know it, but we spend a heck of a lot of time together. Some days, I think I hear your voice more often than my own. I’m pretty sure we could be considered roommates by this point.

Oh, and I love you.

It started out simple enough. I was scrolling through my Facebook feed, and a post about you showed up in one of the mom groups I am a member of.

“Ugh, anyone else have a kid who is obsessed with Blippi? I am going insane!”

What the blip is a Blippi? I thought to myself, and I clicked on the comment section out of pure curiosity. A handful of comments from annoyed moms followed. “That laugh! It grates right through me!” “So annoying!” “I’ve banned Blippi from my house!”

And then a comment stood out:

“My son learned to talk from watching Blippi.”

The responses to that comment were swift. “Mine too!” “We love Blippi! He has helped my child so much!”

I glanced at my then 2-year-old. Born prematurely, he had been recently diagnosed with a severe speech delay. When we began Early Intervention services a few months prior, his vocabulary consisted of only ten words. Through the diligent work of his Early Intervention specialist and his speech therapist, he had been making steady progress. We were hearing new words every day, and we were thrilled. But, a little extra help couldn’t be a bad thing…

I pulled up a YouTube video and called my son over. He had never sat through a television show before, only giving the screen a fleeting glance as he sprinted off to his next toddler adventure. I was doubtful that any show would keep his attention long enough to make any sort of impact, but it was worth a try.

He was transfixed. By the end of the short video, my speech-delayed kid was dancing around, attempting to sing along to a song about an excavator. I was in awe. And when it ended…

“Want… more… fippi…”

And, my dear Blippi, that is where our love began.

My sweet boy graduated from Early Intervention recently. Over the course of the year that he received services, his vocabulary soared from a mere 10 words into the hundreds. The toddler who made only unintelligible sounds a year ago is now speaking in sentences.

I will be forever grateful to Rachel and Bethany, the Early Intervention specialists who spent countless hours sitting on my living room floor, lovingly guiding Gabe into speaking through play-based activities. I can happily say that after a year of their hard work, the wish that I had hoped for on our first day together has finally come true: He won’t stop talking, and I wish for a few minutes of quiet. Those specialists — and you, Blippi! — helped to give me the gift of endless toddler chatter.

Blippi, you are welcome to stay for as long as Gabe will have you. With each new video you post, new words appear in my son’s vocabulary. Words I wouldn’t typically hear myself saying, or didn’t even know myself, are sneaking into his vocabulary. (Yes, my 3-year-old now knows that a rickshaw is called a tuk-tuk in India. I was yesterday-years-old when I learned that.) He gleefully shrieks when he sees objects you have made him familiar with out in public.He sings your songs every waking moment of the day. He starts conversations with people about the fun things you do. You have been a bonus teacher to him, encouraging his growth in an engaging, toddler-appropriate way.

And for that, I love you. Even if you annoy the other moms on Facebook.

Love,

Your biggest fan (and her kid, too, I guess)

P.S. I do a rocking version of the backhoe dance. Just ask my middle schooler.

The 5 People You’ll Meet While Pushing a Grocery Store Car Cart

By

Krystal Avila

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November 5, 2018

“Mommy, I want the car!”

Those are the five most dreaded words any mom can hear when entering the grocery store.

Have you ever driven the shopping cart attached to the little car?

I am talking about that bright yellow and red car attached to the shopping cart. The car your toddler can already see when you’ve only mentioned a trip to the grocery store. The car that barely has seat belts, when it should have a five-point harness. The car that gives your children quick and easy access to all the foods on the bottom two rows in each aisle.

Yes, that car.

It’s always interesting walking around the store pushing this car cart, and over the past few months I’ve been seeing the same people while I’m “driving” my two boys around in that precious car. So I thought I’d give you a rundown of the people you can expect to see when you’re lucky (or brave) enough to tackle the cute little car cart.

1. The stare-down person

You see me coming from a mile away and just stare. You don’t blink. You don’t offer to push your cart out of the way. You just stare at me. While I’m using all the mom muscles I’ve built up from carrying child number two, who won’t let me put him down, you fix your gaze into my direction. Then, finally, once I have passed you, I hear you breathe a sigh of relief and continue on your way.

2. The teammate

I see you out of the corner of my eye pushing your kids in the other yellow and red car. I feel your pain. I know you have encountered the same people and have not even made it to the bread aisle yet. We must stick together but, at the same time, stay out of each other’s way. These cars are huge and don’t take corners well. We smile at each other and continue, in opposite directions.

3. The pity-look person

Your kids are probably grown, but you remember the days when grocery shopping was like a NASCAR race. The flashbacks this car cart brings strike a little fear in you, but a little nostalgia sets in because your kids have grown. I can see that. As we pass each other, you look, give a head nod, smile, and move quickly toward the next aisle.

4. The friendly cashier

Seeing you means I have almost successfully made it out of the grocery store without any meltdowns, car accidents, or tears. You smile and then get a confused look on your face because I am not unloading my carriage like everyone else. I am shimmying between the carriage and the convenient mountain of candy in your lane because I can’t possibly reach over the car to put all my groceries on the belt. And, while I’m squeezing between the carriage and candy, you hear me talking and assume I have kids but aren’t quite sure because the car blocks all view. You only hear me saying, “No, we are not getting candy, no we cannot buy the magazines, or the balloon.” (Whose idea is it anyway to sell balloons at EACH register?) Once I have unloaded my carriage, I give you one-word answers in between the conversation with my kids, and you are very pleasant and tell me to have a good day.

5. The bagger

I appreciate you, and probably more than you know. You know that entertaining my children while I try to unload my carriage and pay is not in your job description, but you do it anyway. You are always so friendly and sometimes even give my kids stickers. Thank you. You have just helped me end my shopping trip on a positive note, even if I smashed into two displays, put “stolen” goods back in the wrong aisles, and opened the Goldfish mid-trip to quiet down the two in the little car.

Just remember, next time you go to the grocery store, say yes to the car cart and enjoy the people you encounter. It makes “driving” through the grocery store much more fun!